TikToker @elmechudo69_ posted a TikTok on December 20th of a wedding party that has since gone viral. The groom (in the black shirt) is turning up on the dance floor, clearly wasted, when a friend of his pulls up on him and starts kissing him and grabbing him. Instead of pushing him away, the newly-married man kisses him back, all right in front of his bride. At first, the shocked guests scream and laugh, but the two just keep at it. Relatives separated the two before the madness could escalate further, but at that point the wedding had been pretty conclusively ruined.

According to the comments, the groom later posted on Instagram claiming that he’s not gay and that the only reason he let it happen was because he had alcohol and usually never drinks. Not so sure about that one, bud. Better to get everything all out in the open now as opposed to ten years into a marriage.